Most people would like to be popular with others, but not everyone can achieve this goal. What is the secret to popularity? In fact, it is very simple. The first step is to improve our appearance. We should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress well.
When we are healthy and well'groomed, we will not only look better but also feel better. In addition, we should smile and appear friendly. After all, our facial expression is an important part of our appearance. If we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our confidence.
Another important step is developing more consideration for others. We should always put others first and place their interests before our own. It's also important to be good listeners; in this way people will feel comfortable enough to confide in us. However, no matter what we do, we must not gossip.
Above all, we must remember to be ourselves, not phonies. Only by being sincere and respectful of others can we earn their respect. If we can do all of the above, I am sure popularity will come our way.
有人说宰相肚里能撑船，但我要说如果一个人没有一个宽大的心扉那他的肚里连一只蚂蚁洞放不下。我们在人世间要有一个宽大的心扉，还要有一个待人接物的好脾气。不要因为有一点鸡毛蒜皮的小事而大打出手我。
我的一个同学因为一支钢笔把同学打的“鼻青脸肿”。
如果一个人没有一个好脾气。那么，她连一个朋友都交不到。
我小时候我有一个同学因为没有一个好脾气，交一个朋友不几天就掰了。
现在那个同学都交不到朋友，我们要有一个好脾气猜呢有人愿意接受我们的友谊。
同学们：
大家好!
如果你是一匹风驰电掣的千里马，那么自我宣传就能助你早日寻找到伯乐;如果你是一块不怕火炼的真金，那么自我宣传就能帮你拂去身上的尘土;如果你是一个博学多才的人，那么自我宣传就是你迈向成功的第一步。
也许你多才多艺，但如今却如一坛酒，静静地在深巷中酝酿着自己的香醇，感受着“李广难封”的悲哀，那么请你不要再信守“沉默是金”的信条，快快向大家推销自己吧。
世常有千里马，而伯乐却并不常有。如果你不想做一个被岁月遗弃的千里马，那么就快快在原野上奔驰吧，尽情展示自己吧，不要徒留“老骥伏枥，志在千里”的悲哀与长叹，不要让自己空留有“心有余而力不足”的一腔哀叹。所以，及早地展示自己，是十分必要的。当今世界，你我他也许个个都是人中蛟龙，但最终成功的也许只有他，因为只有他懂得在机遇面前尽情地展现自我，而你我在机遇面前，却只知缄口不语，希冀着有那么一个机遇来发现自己，殊不知“是金子总会发光的”永远只是少数，而不懂得展露自己的你我，则只能归结为历史进程中那平凡无能的浩浩众人中的一员。
所以，如果你是一个仍被藏在布袋中的锥子，那就及时地戳穿布袋，显露自己的锋芒;如果你是另一个毛遂，那就不妨也来一个“毛遂自荐”，续写一段佳话……
但是，盲目的自我宣传并不值得提倡。我们宣传自己的前提是自己必须有真才实学，所以，当你不具备足够的才情来让世人肯定你时，不妨适当地当一下深巷中那坛还需慢慢发酵的酒，待一切都已准备好时，再让世人为你的芳香美味而倾倒。正如梅花也是在蕴积了春秋的精华之后，才在冬天释放自己最浓烈的香气的。
同学们，当有一天你是那个具有真才实学的人时，就请积极地向世人宣传自己吧!
谢谢大家!
good morning, ladies and gentlemen. i’d like to share my teaching dream with you. but before that, i want to say something about the beginning of this dream. in march this year, three teachers from australia came to our school. during the meeting, we exchanged a lot about education. i found that though we have almost the same teaching philosophy, we have different routines. what impressed me most was that their schools end at 3:00 in the afternoon and have no night classes. i can’t tell which kind of routine is better, but the sharp contrast made me think about a better education. the following is a dreamy school in my mind, in which there is no pressure but pleasure.
in this school, the buildings are well designed, close to nature. in the morning, children can read while enjoying the beautiful sunrise. in the evening, they can exercise by the lake reflecting the amazing sunset. in the spring, they can go to the wild, lie on the lawn, and watch the kite flying in the blue sky. in the summer, they can go to the forest, live in a cabin, and listen to the rhythm of the rain. …
students are free but polite and they respect each other. they can leave at 4:00 every afternoon, or perhaps earlier. they have the freedom to organize time. they can go to the library, go to the lab, the computer rooms or the playground. they’re self-motivated and have a strong thirst for knowledge. and there are no frequent exams and rankings. students won’t be forced to wear uniforms everyday, and there is no required hair style. everyday is so colorful that they are looking forward to the next day when going to bed at night,
every teacher in this school can give a course as they like. there is no tedious rating, no scraps of quantitative management and no rigid standard. teachers can fully display their personality in class, and they feel very happy and content to teach. every morning, on thoughts of giving lessons, they are excited. after class, they are delighted , with smiles on their faces. some experts, scholars and masters are also visiting teachers in this school.yang zhenning can give physics classes for a day. yi zhongtian opens lectures on chinese culture for a week. speaking of music, we can ask wang lihong to give music lectures, just as he did in oxford university. if necessary, we can also invite david beckham to speak something about the world cup …
the principal of the school focuses on education rather than waste time in endless meetings and social activities. teachers’ wages are not high but enough to live comfortably. there are no other things to do except to teach. there are no paper requirements, no titles and no ranks because they don’t need to be judged by those things. almost every teacher is a well-known scholar and master in a particular field. a language teacher may be a writer at the same time. a math teacher may try to overcome a world-class guess. a physics teacher can win invention awards and a music teacher may return from an international music competition again.
带着梦想，带着期待，_年的夏天，我来到了鸭子口这个灵山秀水的地方，开始了我全新的教师生涯。初涉教坛的我可以说是意气风发、豪情万丈，对教育、对学生充满了无限的热望。正如当时一位同事所说：“我两手空空而来，我怀着满腔赤诚而来。”
从教的生活是清苦的，更是快乐的。当我走上讲台的时候，当我检查寝室的时候，当我进行家访的时候，我奉献着，我是快乐的;当我看到学生笑脸的时候，当我收到学生来信的时候，当学生来看我的时候，我收获着，我是幸福的。我用我的智慧，我的热情自由地描绘着我无悔的青春年华。过去的八年，是我激情燃烧的岁月，是我人生中最灿烂的一段时光，我不敢自诩是春蚕，是蜡烛，是人类灵魂的工程师，但我可以这样自豪的说：“我无愧我的学生，我无悔我的选择。”因为诚实做人，踏实做事，严谨治学，是我一贯的准则。
杨柳枯了又青了，桃花开了又谢了，燕子去了又来了，学生来了又走了，我却还坚守在这儿，守着我们的乐士，守着我们的精神家园。山还是那座山，河还是那条河，日子就这样过着，平凡却不平淡。一切都好像没有变，变化的是我日益衰老的容颜，与之沉淀的，是我依旧年轻不变的情怀!
八年前的某一天，我站在教育组的演讲席上慷慨陈词，庆幸“长大后我就成了你”，八年后的今天，我依然在这里诉说自己的成长经历，真是别有一番滋味在心头。
不管是春花烂漫，还是雨雪风霜，我们已经走过了如歌的青春。但我的从教之路依然遥远，“路漫漫其修远兮，吾将上下而求索”!
往往我都会面临人生的双叉路，如果你选对了你会一路风顺，往往一些迷途少年都会选择最极端的那一路。不过我在司机吴斌身上深有启发。
这件事发生在20__年5。29日11时10分时司机吴斌驾驶客车从无锡返回杭州的路上，一块不名铁片，迅速的向司机吴斌飞来，铁片穿透了玻璃，撞上了司机吴斌，吴斌顿时肝脏破裂及肋骨多处骨折，肺肠挫伤。吴斌再发生一外的一瞬间，忍着将车缓缓得靠向路边，拉上了手刹，开启了双闪灯，完成了一系列的刹车措施，这一过程仅用1分16秒。然后挣扎的站了起来对车上的乘客说：“不要乱动，一个一个下，会有人来救你。”说完后就开启了车门，看到车上的乘客下完后，就匆匆的离开了人世。
司机吴斌在生死关头决定好了方向，使保住了一车人的生命，但是司机吴斌到时完全可以不做啊!但他想死我一人只会有一个家庭伤心，儿我如果现在撒手再回有24个家人伤心。
往往一个重要的选择，会改变一个人的一生。在这重要的现这种选择中只有你一个人可以掌控，就算的人想帮你，也只是无能为力的。
同学们，我们应该从今天做起向今天发起挑战，让我们一起决定自己的未来吧!
One day in 1819, 3,000 miles off the coast of Chile, in one of the most remote regions of the Pacific Ocean, 20 American sailors watched their ship flood with seawater.
They'd been struck by a sperm whale, which had ripped a catastrophic hole in the ship's hull. As their ship began to sink beneath the swells, the men huddled together in three small whaleboats.
These men were 10,000 miles from home, more than 1,000 miles from the nearest scrap of land. In their small boats, they carried only rudimentary navigational equipment and limited supplies of food and water.
These were the men of the whaleship Essex, whose story would later inspire parts of “Moby Dick.”
Even in today's world, their situation would be really dire, but think about how much worse it would have been then.
No one on land had any idea that anything had gone wrong. No search party was coming to look for these men. So most of us have never experienced a situation as frightening as the one in which these sailors found themselves, but we all know what it's like to be afraid.
We know how fear feels, but I'm not sure we spend enough time thinking about what our fears mean.
As we grow up, we're often encouraged to think of fear as a weakness, just another childish thing to discard like baby teeth or roller skates.
And I think it's no accident that we think this way. Neuroscientists have actually shown that human beings are hard'wired to be optimists.
So maybe that's why we think of fear, sometimes, as a danger in and of itself. “Don't worry,” we like to say to one another. “Don't panic.” In English, fear is something we conquer. It's something we fight.
It's something we overcome. But what if we looked at fear in a fresh way? What if we thought of fear as an amazing act of the imagination, something that can be as profound and insightful as storytelling itself?
It's easiest to see this link between fear and the imagination in young children, whose fears are often extraordinarily vivid.
When I was a child, I lived in California, which is, you know, mostly a very nice place to live, but for me as a child, California could also be a little scary.
I remember how frightening it was to see the chandelier that hung above our dining table swing back and forth during every minor earthquake, and I sometimes couldn't sleep at night, terrified that the Big One might strike while we were sleeping.
And what we say about kids who have fears like that is that they have a vivid imagination. But at a certain point, most of us learn to leave these kinds of visions behind and grow up.
We learn that there are no monsters hiding under the bed, and not every earthquake brings buildings down. But maybe it's no coincidence that some of our most creative minds fail to leave these kinds of fears behind as adults.
亲爱的老师、同学们：
生命很顽强，有时候也很脆弱。你是否有过这样的经历?一天，我和爸爸去街对面的杂货店买零食。刚出门时，我们有说有笑的，但刚走到街口，便听到刺耳的急刹车，紧接着，有时雷鸣般的碰撞。我们惊呆了，抬头一看，原来是一辆蓝黑色的汽车与一辆深红的电动车相撞。电动车主人满身是血躺在地上。
你是否听过这样一个故事?13岁的赵雯，因为听信了一位中年妇女的话，“我们西藏可好玩了，我带你去玩吧。”这“一玩”就是5年，原来是被人拐卖了5年。
据统计，我国每年大约有1。6万名中小学生非正常死亡，平均每天有40多个，也就是说平均每天有一个班的学生在消失。
热爱生命，远离危险，学会自护，我们才能筑牢安全屏障，确保我们的生命安全。为此，我代表第一实验小学五年级一班全体同学，向全校同学发出如下倡议：
1、严格遵守交通规则，不乱穿马路，过马路要走人行横道，不闯红灯，过马路做到“一停、二看、三通过”。
2、课间文明休息，不打闹，不追逐奔跑。
3、上下楼梯轻声慢步靠右走，不跳跃，不互相推挤，不从栏杆上下滑及做其他危险的动作。
4、参加强度较大的体育活动、劳动，遇身体不适或有先天性疾病的同学应及时向老师汇报。
5、在平日活动过程中要自觉注意人身安全，学会自我防护。
6、放学后及时回家，不在公共场所逗留玩耍。
7、不吃流动摊点上的不洁食品，防止病从口入。
同学们，让我们热爱生命，远离危险，学会自护，把平安的种子播撒向大地，等到它发芽生长、开花结果之时，我们收获的必将是更多的幸福与安宁!
尊敬的各位评委、各位老师，同学们：
大家下午好!
从大家热情的掌声中，我感到同学们对我寄予深切的期望。我定会凭着执着和坚毅笑到最后!
何谓执着?执着就是韧劲、就是耐性、就是毅力，执着就是一种向着目标孜孜追求的过程，一种不达目的绝不罢休的精神!
生活并不简单，处处都有考验;人生并不平坦，时时需要磨炼。不能执着于自己的追求，不能锲而不舍地为着理想努力，必将一事无成。
这次拓展训练上，面对10米攀岩和高空跳跃，全体学员毫不畏惧，勇于攀登，特别是部分女同学克服了生理和心理方面的极限，执着登攀，一心向上;执着向前，奋勇争先的表现，以实际行动诠释了执着的实质和内涵!
一个人执着的韧劲是强者区别于庸者的的必要条件。在厄运面前不屈从，在困难面前不低头，是英雄的表现。古人云：逆境出人才，乱世造英雄。挫折和打击对于强者来说就是动力和压力，就是成功和胜利!众所周知，文王拘而演周易;仲尼厄而作春秋;屈原放逐赋离骚;左丘失明厥国语;司马迁狱中著《史记》;贝多芬失聪谱写《月光曲》。事例不胜枚举，但道理只有一个，凡事贵在执着!
哥伦布在他每天的的航海日记上总是写着这样的一句话：“我们继续前行!”这句话看似平凡，实则包含着深刻的道理。就凭着这种一往直前的精神，他们向着茫茫大海挺进，横跨惊涛骇浪，历经蛮荒野地，克服千辛万苦，终于发现了新大陆，完成了历史上的惊人壮举!
有一句歌词，大家耳熟能详，“不经历风雨，哪能见彩虹!”人生的道路虽然不会平坦，但只要怀揣美好的梦想，只要固守人生的方向，就一定能创造属于自己甚至是人类的奇迹!
最后，我想用一首诗作结尾：
丑陋的蝙蝠用千年的辛劳才赢来诗人的赞誉
莽撞的水牛用万里耕耘才赢得画家的青眸，
我们不是为名利而生而死而苟活，
我们是为信仰而歌而迈而奋斗!
谢谢大家!
Good afternoon, my dear friends.
I am very happy to meet you here.It is my great honor to communicate with you at such a special occation.First of all,please allow me to express my appreciation to you all to listion to me.
I am proud of being a college student.The collegelife is fresh,new teachers, new classmates and new friends. I like the friendship, and their wide knowledge and opening mind. The grand library, school buildings and wide playground attrattde me very much.My college life is better than I expected, I can do anything I like. In the college we can not only learn the professional knowledge,but also develop our comprehensive abilities.If we can make full use of the period,we can learn many useful things.Besides,we should have the active attitude to our life,do a contributionto the society.Collegelife is the most precious time in our life.Most of us want to become an outstanding man. But there are some students still waste their time. They get together for eating, drinking or playing cards. They're busy in searching for a girlfriend or a boyfriend. They completely forget their task as college students.
Finally, I hope everybody can try their best to become a worthy person to our country, and make great contributions to the society!